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The Problem with Consequences Part Three

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The Problem with Consequences Part Three

In my previous weekly tips, I didn’t mention one of the biggest issues with using consequences to teach children. Before a plant becomes visible to the human eye, it is first a tiny, dormant seed. With the right conditions, that seed starts to grow. With more nurturing, that seed grows and grows until it becomes the full-fledged plant that it was destined to be. When you or your children want to make a change, that desire, or intention is the equivalent of a plant seed. You need to nurture the desire, and make sure that the right conditions...

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The Problem with Consequences Part Two

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The Problem with Consequences Part Two

This is one of the most asked-about and confusing topics for parents. That’s why I’ve made this a three part series. I went into the overall concept of consequences in Part One. Now in Part Two, I will make an important distinction; natural versus logical consequences. Then I will follow this up with Part Three where I go deeper into why consequences are such a risky tool to use, even though they can work, and well, especially in the short-term. Many parenting educators teach consequences as one of the main tools in your parenting...

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The Problem with Consequences Part One

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The Problem with Consequences Part One

  One of the things I’m asked most about by parents is about consequences. Some parents bring up the subject almost defensively, and they want to explain to me how consequences actually work in their family. Other families are clear that they don’t want to use consequences, but they end up throwing them out from sheer desperation, as their kids aren’t listening to them until they scream or start listing off consequences. So right off, I want to say something that may surprise you. Consequences do work. So why then do I not...

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Your Child Needs YOU to be a leader: Why Your Child Needs Limits

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Your Child Needs YOU to be a leader: Why Your Child Needs Limits

Most parents are way more conscious and sensitive than ever before. For example, we aren’t near as likely to bark out orders to our children and disregard their feelings. And old parenting defaults such as children being expected to be seen but not heard have fallen out of favor.  However, in becoming gentler, more conscious parents, we have often lost our way in one of our pivotal roles, that of our child’s most important leader. Imagine you are in an altercation with someone in a public place that deteriorates into a shoving match. We all...

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Next Time

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Next Time

  I want to share a simple but extremely powerful concept. We’re all very sensitive to criticism. Unfortunately, almost all of us have way too much of it in our lives. You can make a massive shift in your family by making a small change in how you word things. When your children make a mistake, or when you want to suggest that they do things differently in the future, , say these magic words, “Next time can you ….” For example, if your child has spills milk, while you’re cleaning up the mess or they’re...

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What’s the craziest thing you’ve done while multi-tasking?

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What’s the craziest thing you’ve done while multi-tasking?

  What’s the craziest thing you’ve done as a parent because you had too many things going on at the same time? I ran over my laptop yesterday.   It was a chain of events that could ONLY happen to a mom. It was also one of the more  absurd moments in my life:) My husband, male friends and family are assuring me could not ever have happened to them. And unlike the too serious and often miserable me in my twenties or early thirties, I could hardly stop laughing about it all day! I was able to stay in a place of trusting that it...

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We’re on Huff Post Live!

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    Register for this webinar now!   Watch The Huffington Post replay here.    ...

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Happy Thanksgiving to our American GPS family!

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Happy Thanksgiving to our American GPS family!

  On behalf of our incredible volunteers, aka Team GPS, our GPS staff, and myself, I want to wish you a very wonderful Thanksgiving with your precious family. Family rituals are so important. As you go through your day and follow some old traditions, and start some new ones… I hope you give thanks not just for your family, but for yourself! Gratitude is a powerful choice. Celebrating and being grateful for all of our wins as a parent, not only makes the journey more fun, but makes those changes you want to make so much easier to...

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How you may be affected by my big personal change

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How you may be affected by my big personal change

  I am celebrating a huge shift in my life, and in our GPS community! Part of what I’m going to share today is personal. I’ve decided to share it because I believe it has potential to have a big impact on you and your family too! Quick update: First, we’re still on track (in fact more so than ever!) for our upcoming membership launch. I’ll be announcing the membership name soon (thanks for your votes!). Next, I’ll be getting your help on choosing our logo. Then we’ll be announcing our first special webinar training class!...

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